Happy New Year babes- I hope you’re ready to ignite 2022 with some freaking FIRE!
I know this is a time for many to start strong and tackle whatever resolutions that have been conjured up. I also recognize that for lots of people, sticking to a new year’s resolution proves difficult. And there’s a REAL reason for that!
First off, I want you to remember that if you yourself have given up on a previous resolution- that experience doesn’t inherently define your ability to achieve. You’re just as capable as I believe you to be. In reality, EVERY person experiences setbacks in their journey. So, I want you to take 2022 as an opportunity to challenge yourself + push your boundaries of familiarity because the magic happens outside of your comfort zone, and I want to show you how to make some magic this year.
If you’re a gym-goer or yoga enthusiast like I am…Then you have logged into your MindBody or ClassPass app weeks in advance to book the 5 am hot yoga class before the MASSIVE influx of new members start booking up all your fave classes. Point is, I notice everyyyy year new members come to the gym and get dressed up in their fabulous new activewear and seize every day to move their body! But did you observe the dwindling volume of people who stick to the gym as the first few weeks pass? That probably has to do with the foundational essence of the goal itself!
There are actually TWO (of a few) kinds of goal setting: Performance and Identity Based Goals. I briefly discussed these differences in my Manifest your Dream Coaching workshop just last week- soooo let’s recap!
Pursuing performance based goals means looking for measurable outcomes. For example, it can be losing a certain amount of weight or finally starting that dream online biz you have been thinking about! Performance based goals happen at the conscious level of change, where someone is just changing their environment or behavior. These layers of the mind, while they can be effective sometimes with repetition, are not at the unconscious layer which promotes the long lasting change that people crave. While performance based goals are great, identity based goals are crafted by a deeper rooted inspiration.
Identity based goals harness your values, beliefs, and alllllll the behaviors your beautiful being encompasses on a daily basis. When creating these goals, you’re emulating the person you desire to be through a refreshed mindset, and subsequently, revitalized habits.
There are layers behind our goal setting, and where we choose to extract the energy to make these big desires HAPPEN is soooo freaking important! Your identity is the core, whereas the outcomes are your outermost experience. Imagine how much more liberated you’d feel magnetizing your dreams from WITHIN rather than outside of you.
So the reason why you remain consistent at the gym, riding the Peloton and the reason why you continue waking up for your 5 am hot yoga in your Lululemon Aligns, is because you identify as a healthy person who lives a healthy lifestyle. You value your health, moving and grooving your body is important, and this belief is in your core, it is your habitual behavior to gravitate toward an obscenely large bottle of essentia and greek salad (with extra feta of course) instead of a red bull or soda and bag of chips. It’s WHO YOU ARE!
Unfortunately for the peeps who are taking your fave Peloton machine at the gym or fave spot in the yoga studio (or aren’t taking your spot anymore after a few days), they are only making changes to the conscious level of change, the things that are not sustainable. They haven’t decided that it’s who they are and their values and beliefs are still the same as they were in 2021.
Experiences are IMPORTANT, and you deserve the freedom to ascend beyond mediocrity to be whoever the hell you want to be! If you’re looking to evolve into someone who is unapologetically authentic and annoyingly happy all the time, maybe attracting their DREAM clients, or being an amazing mama bear, and pouring passion into life- then use THAT high vibe as inspiration for your objectives! You get to define what all that means.
How can you consistently channel this individual energy into a SUSTAINABLE & SUCCESSFUL transformation? Activate your Alter Ego! An alter ego can give you some distance from yourself & your subconscious confines- or what we know to be the comfort zone!
I’m sure you’ve heard me mention the phrase “like attracts like”, especially when you’re utilizing the Law of Attraction! Therefore, the energy you put out into the world will then be an exact match to the vibrational energy you will ATTRACT!
By taking steps every day, big AND small, to embody that radiant and happy badass you want to be… you’re proving to yourself you can freaking do it! I implement this very exercise into my Magnetic Money Accelerated Experience; it requires some MAJAAAAA self reflection + visualizing which guides my students to make BOLD AF decisions in ALL areas of life, including finances!
Change is hard, it is uncomfortable, but change can be equally, if not more, rewarding to us. I’m eager to see all that we can accomplish when we ascend past our learned conformity + societal standards of success! Because hello, that shit is freaking boring… don’t you agree?
If you’re ready to ask yourself the POWERFUL questions able to unlock your sexy beautiful AMAZING 2.0 self, then my FREE Facebook community is for youuuu my high vibe honey! This is a community full of inspired + supportive women passionate about defining their soul-aligned success just like you!
And if you REALLY want to kick off 2022 with a great investment, I’m launching Magnetic Money this upcoming Thursday, January 6th- you can STILL sign up!!!