I’m sure you’ve heard me time and time again, the key to living a life beyond your dreams is creating YOUR definition of success. That was a core factor in transforming my own life- and I LOVE guiding other women to do the same!
When we think of what success is, many of us resort to traditionally tangible outcomes: the dream home, a juicy job offer, the cutest closet, even the luxury of jetting off to a new location every month (first class, of course)!
But something that we don’t often reflect on is how success should make us feel.
I was freaking stumped when I was asked, point-blank, what success meant to me. It was excruciatingly difficult to answer knowing that I had “success” down to a science as a corporate cog in the machine. Living my NYC dream and making lucrative earnings as an EA was what I thought made me successful, but that idea soon came crashing down when I realized just how drained + dissatisfied it made me feel.
With empty answers came SO much room to really understand, tinker, and form my belief of success. And although it was terrifying at first, it was truly liberating! That revitalization of a very common phenomena became the primary source of inspiration for the work I do day in and day out. And truth be told, it never gets old watching other women unlock their soul-aligned blueprint for the success destined for them.
So, that begs the million dollar question: what does success mean to ME?
I define success as showing up as the BEST version of yourself, making the most empowered decisions to honor my utmost desires for life! That means holding that vision, honoring it through boundaries and goals, and committing with consistency!
It’s much more than cultivating a positive relationship with your boss, life partner, family, friends, and everything in between. You need to reorient the pinnacle of success to fit YOU, who you are at the cellular level. Your perception of success is going to evolve WITH you, and by putting that idea on something outside of you is only going to lead you to disappointment.
Creating YOUR version of success is the first step in leading an authentically aligned life. Isn’t that what you’ve been craving this entire time- a truly abundant life that no pinch will wake you up from because it’s THAT real?
What do you say loves, are you ready to start living successfully by YOUR standards?
Here’s how you can begin creating your definition of success:
Think about success as a multi-faceted force: your lifestyle design, business endeavors, creative liberty, even as purpose-driven passions. What do each of those areas of life have to offer you individually? The space in which these areas overlap is a cultivation of what success can mean to you! And yes, they will all offer you something different (which is GREAT), but how they cohesively strengthen one another is just as important.
I implore you to start building a multi-dimensional definition of success and nurture each facet it embodies. I use daily scripting as a way to incorporate details that bring those visions that much more to life!
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