REAL self-love encompasses the highs AND lows we experience within ourselves, yet operating from a space of acceptance. When you are in a state of self-love, you receive all your thoughts, emotions, and actions as opportunities to learn about your strengths as well as your self-constructed limitations.
I’ll be real with you, it’s NOT entirely about feeling perfect + whole ALL the freaking time. You’re bound to experience struggle. You’re going to endure tension, stress, and fluctuating feelings.
In light of those obstructions, what’s most important is that you honor your feelings to extract key lessons that provide insight into your values and beliefs. These are the beacons illuminating the confines of your comfort zone, and allll the amazing space outside of it you have the chance to explore.
When I first began the process of leaving my corporate job, I bounced from side hustle to side hustle. I tried everything from making homemade body butter with herbs I grew in my garden to selling skincare and trying my hand at coaching.
There were absolutely a handful of times where I did in fact fall on my ass; an abundance of attempts didn’t work out the way I imagined. Despite the failed attempts at making it outside of the financial world, I trusted my instincts. I experienced times of frustration, but knew that my happiness meant more than any achievement I was previously conditioned to acquire. There were days that I ugly cried, felt like crap, and was just so darn frustrated with the challenges I faced. But it made the journey well worth, if not more than, my “end destination”.
We’ve been conditioned in our society to achieve a numerous amount of external achievements, ticking them off like steps on a checklist. But truthfully, you are ENOUGH. You’re inherently capable of beautiful, meaningful, impactful things in this life. You just have to establish the space + time for yourself to explore those beliefs, excavate those inner values, and define what success means to YOU.
There is no such thing as perfection, because perfect is merely an ideal. And frankly, it’ll kill any self-love or humility you have to give to yourself and your loved ones.
I thoroughly implement the education of true self love and its varying practices in ALL of my programs. I believe that it’s one of the fundamental practices we must incorporate into our lifestyle; if we care enough to feel our best, then we have the energy to give our best.
We need to eradicate this idea that we’ll learn to love ourselves AFTER we put our devotion into something in our external reality. We can give and give and give allllll we want, but that love will never be replenished if we don’t save some love for ourselves.
Who do we truly love, if not ourselves first and foremost?
In the Magnetic Money Accelerated Experience, the value we identify in ourselves is the energy we should channel into our financial decisions. Deconstructing money’s conditioned influence on self-perception is what allows my students to make more empowered, dignified, and confident moves with their money- ESPECIALLY in business!
The Sparkle System Coaching Certification + Six Figure Business School is all about making those quantum leaps by activating your FIRE to create meaningful and soul-aligned goals. Channeling compassion into those empowering goals helps you take necessary accountability for your actions. Self-love is most effective when we harness our greatest strengths, show gratitude for our growth, and take responsibility for that deep inner work fueling our dreams + desires.
The Universe will reward you by tenfold when you come to terms with the adoration and respect you need to give yourself. You are worthy of your dreams, the Universe sees that as well, and with due time (and work) you can achieve them.
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